Find Love by Dating Sensitive People!

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If you're a woman and you like the bad boy, in hollywood the bad boy is sexy right? But in real life the emotionally sensitive man is a MUCH better choice! The same goes for men with the bad girl. The emotionally sensitive woman is a far better choice and will make you more happy. The way she makes you feel emotionally will far surpass any physical attributes she might have. This is because sensitive people will be able to think about what you feel and even anticipate what you need emotionally. A sensitive partner will be able to validate your emotions with love and will create greater intimacy in your relationship. How to find a sensitive person you might ask? It's not always easy. Sensitive people like myself tend to be more introverted and are not as outgoing as other people. We might be the person in the room that has to most intelligent and insightful thing to say, yet we keep it to ourselves because we don't want to draw unnecessary attention and overshadow other people's feelings which is a big concern for sensitive people. If you're single, good luck on your relationship search either way and I hope you all can find happiness.

Remember that you might find love in the most sensitive places!

Women, you are the Superior Sex!

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Women, you are beautiful just the way all of you are! Don't let a man, any man, or society tell you how to look or act. Love yourself! You are superior to us in every single way. A secret a lot of men don't want to tell you is that you are the superior sex. You need to rise up, and take all of the white man's powerful jobs in the world, and take your rightful place as our better, more intelligent half. This is coming from a man who loves women. I love my mother and I love my wife. Women you are smarter, stop questioning your superiority and embrace it. We love you, on behalf of men, or at least most men.

Can You Change the World?

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How can one change the world? Think Global! We must first change ourselves, and our way of thinking. In this video I explore questions that can allow one to question themselves and the world around them to inspire change. The power of positive thinking and global change is astounding. We are in a constant state of change as a culture and as individuals. How we think is the secret and makes all the difference!

Why Sensitive People Make Better Romantic Relationship Partners

If you are struggling to have good meaningful romantic relationships, try dating someone that is more sensitive! Sensitive people will be able to think about how you feel and even anticipate what you need. A sensitive partner will be able to validate your emotions with love to create greater intimacy in your relationship.

How do you find a sensitive partner you might ask? It's not easy because sensitive people tend not to be as assertive as people that are not as sensitive and more outgoing. You really need to seek them out. They are like a diamond in the rough. In the room they might be the person with the most intelligent and insightful thing to say but they keep it to themselves because they don't want to draw attention to themselves and overshadow other people's feelings.

They are acutely aware of other people's feelings. You'll notice that when you meet a sensitive person they will likely listen much more than they talk. This is because they are actively studying you and your emotions. They will usually be an expert with empathy - being able to understand how other people feel and why they feel that way. You will likely feel emotionally taken care of with a sensitive person.

In a relationship, sensitive people will continue to improve in their actions and their emotions. As you become more intimate they will discover your true emotions and will hold them in the highest regard. Then they will search for more ways to increase intimacy and greater satisfaction and emotional harmony in your relationship.

Put simply, you simply cannot go wrong when deciding to date or marry a sensitive person. They are a loyal and wonderful lifelong partner. Women, if you're used to dating the "Bad Boy" try dating a sensitive man, you'll be pleasantly surprised by a man that treats you right physically and emotionally and this will lead to greater intimacy. Men, if you're used to dating the "Bad Girl" try dating the emotionally intelligent woman. You'll find that her sensitivity and how good it makes you feel will far surpass any physical attribute that a "bad girl" may possess.

If you're single, good luck on your relationship search. Remember that you might find true love in places you never thought to look.

Sensitive People make the World a Better Place!

Of course, all people are sensitive creatures, we all have dynamic emotional structures that use to show emotions and be sensitive. Some use it more than others. Traditionally, men have been known to be much less sensitive and show emotions much less or not at all when compared to women. However, this stereotype is fading. There is evidence of this with a term to define this new kind of man, the SNAG (Sensitive New Age Guy). Guys, it's okay to be sensitive, it's a good thing, and the women in your life will love you for it.

In our society it's more important than ever to be more sensitive with each other. Some would say that there's certain areas like the workplace where emotions don't have a place, but they are wrong. Emotions and sensitivity have an integral place in every single facet of our society.

It is for this reason that sensitive people are so crucial to the proper functioning of our society. Sensitive people tend to think of how others feel more. They think before they act. They weigh the ramifications of their actions to see how others will be affected.

If you are a sensitive person, congratulations, you should be proud to be such an important person in your circle of influence. Being a hsp (highly sensitive person) myself I know these people often don't feel like this quality of theirs is a good thing. Have confidence, your sensitivity is and always will be an increasingly valuable asset in our society!

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Men and Women need to Think Sensitively

As human beings, both men and women need to be sensitive and need others to react sensitively with them when they encounter difficult situations in life. Being insensitive almost makes any human interaction worse and leaves at least one party feeling inadequate and not respected.

When people don't have their feelings validated and respected animosity builds causing positive communication to break down. This is especially true in male-female intimate relationships. Men and women's different sensitivity styles can cause major problems in relationships and is one of the main causes of divorce.

The goal in all human interaction is always to find emotional common ground and this requires the right amount of sensitivity and understanding with each other!

How Women Become Hyper Sensitive

Typically, women don't have very much difficulty feeling sensitive and expressing emotions to each other. However, they can sometimes have the opposite problem as men do. Many women can think sensitively all the time, 24/7 365, and they can also be like a sponge for other people's emotions. This can overload a woman's emotional capacity as she becomes more and more hypersensitive and in extreme cases can lead to mental breakdown.

Women must keep their sensitivity in check. From an early age they are taught the opposite from boys. They are told that it's okay and even beneficial to be sensitive and to feel a whole spectrum of emotions. Even the cartoons and movies that are marketed for little girls are more focused on making friends and being nice to each other.

As girls grow up they are under constant pressure. When they reach their teenage years they start emotionally maturing and they become hyper sensitive. Many teenage girls create clicks and have intense drama with rumors swirling which can be quite hurtful to their peers. Bullying among teenage girls is also common just like the boys, but they do it in a different way. Instead of showing pure aggression towards their victim, they emotionally attack the other girl and make basically make them feel worthless.

During this growth phase many women can become hyper sensitive and can feel like a cup that's full of water that can only empty by spilling over the edge. Sometimes if their loved ones are their peers are not supportive they can feel invalidated and can turn to addiction or can commonly be victims of abuse. When women accept being treated poorly it's almost always an emotional deficiency in them causing it. When this happens they learn that being sensitive can cause them pain.

As adults, some women that have emotional strife can become unfeeling just like their male counterparts in an attempt to shut off their sensitivity. They become angry too but this is unproductive and very unhealthy.

How Men Become Insensitive

From an early age young boys are taught to suppress their emotions and sensitive tendencies. They are trained by their fathers, other male role models, the media, and their peers that to be sensitive is to be weak. These same boys turn into men and have difficulty in life, particularly in intimate relationships. The root of their problem is their inability to show emotion and feel it themselves. This training men received early on causes them to have their sensitive side tuned out. When they are emotionally distant then loved ones in their life feel stranded with no support and the emotional food that we all need - to have our feelings validated by someone we intimately care about.

This is really the core isn't it. We must feel validated emotionally and men are taught early to reject this notion. Men teach each other that they can somehow survive on this empty tank of emotions. It's not sustainable or realistic and this is why so many divorces stem from an emotionally distant man.

There is one emotion that is widely accepted in the male community and that is Anger. Men accept and even encourage young boys and their peers to be aggressive and express their anger. This is unhealthy and is helps boys become violent. This social training is the reason why male bullying is so prevalent in our school system. They are taught that they can use their anger to overpower weaker males and are basically getting emotionally validated by force. This is very unhealthy!

Angry, emotionally out of touch men are also part of the reason why wars get started. Just look at history. Behind every major world conflict there have been plenty of aggressive insensitive men ready to fight to the death over anything. This male problem all leads back to an inability to show all emotions and to validate others.

Welcome!

I'm Justin. I live in Minneapolis, MN. I'm 30 years old, married, baby on the way (she's 18 weeks and counting, see our progress at my pregnancy blog - Baby in my Baby)

I'm an Emotionally Dynamic Male, a term I made up. I believe all men, and women for that matter, have the capacity to think sensitively. However, from an early age we learn to suppress these emotions. Boys and Girls do this for different reasons as they grow up.

I will talk more about Thinking Sensitively and how you can get more in touch with your sensitive side whether you are male or female, and whatever age you happen to be.

Thanks for reading!